An event, a book and my mistakes

"If you work nonstop without a break...worry about offending others and back down too easily...explain too much when asked for information... or "poll" your friends and colleagues before making a decision, chances are you have been bypassed for promotions and ignored when you expressed your ideas. Although you may not be aware of it, girlish behaviors such as these are sabotaging your career! "- Dr. Lois Frankel

Wow, I almost forgot my blogger log-in. Again, long time i never update my blog.

I almost finished reading one of the book I bought recently, "Nice girls don't get The office corner office 101, Unconscious mistakes women make that sabotage their career" by Lois P.Frankel, PhD. Well, I pretty agreed what the author said. She shared alot of common mistakes women made in their career. In this book she also gave advice and coaching tips . When I reading those mistakes and the stories, I feel like " it is so like me! OMG, I did this mistake in before". I like the 'Chapter 2: How you Play the Game' and 'Chapter 8: How you Respond'. Okay, this is just a short preview for this book and I will share more or some good points when i finished all. Not promoting this book but personally think that it is good books. Thanks for my dear, he noticed this book at my hometown bookstore when we are on the way back to penang during last trip.

There's an International Beauty Expo, IBE in penang 27-29 Nov. I was there and managed to grab some cheap stuffs. 1 box of Eyebelieve fake eyelashes (8MYR/dozen, is very cheap!) and Schwarzkopf conditioner (50% off) and F.O.X eyeshadow (35MYR). But wondering when can I use my fake lashes? hmm.. Besides that, there's invited 3 taiwanese celebrities/make-up artist. For those who got watch TVBS TV program" 女人我最大", you will know who is 柳燕老师, 小凯老师and Vivian Ho.

Here is the picture to show you in case you don't know. From right Vivian, 小凯, __ ,

柳燕, follow by uncle don't know his name (left). haha. :D

I had attend the talk given by make-up artist 小凯, and he demostrate how to do HD make-up. Interesting , everything goes Hign Defination HD, even HD make-up huh? Basically, just show you how to do make-up that can make your skin look like got inner shine and flawless effect by using some so called HD make-up products? even under HD camera, you also can look flawless in the photo. aha...Here are the pictures I taken, HD make-up:

Well that's pretty much here...

time, stress and emotional

It has been so many months I did not update my blog. wow, 5 months! OMG, I think too busy with work and too stress.. stress.. and stress nothing but bad for health.



Worry something that is not worth it to worry, wasting time and tears. Perhaps I just being too emotional about all things happened. All the while, he has been a very good listener, listen to the things I complaint. I believe I also giving him alot of stress . I hope everything will be better, keep telling myself that just accept the fact. When the time is right then just move on. Past and present is very much different. Keep telling myself look forward.. trying so hard to remind myself. hmm, even tried to google to find motivation and think positively. Purchased books and read for self-improve, hopefully it give me some hint on how to handle stress and bad situation and slowly change my mind.

Stuffs from Japan

I'm so lazy to type here. Always got the thought want to share something but lately I'm very busy with my work.Start to learn take a deep breath rather than sighing.
Remember my last update I saying that want to share the thing I got it. Once i got it, unpack and got no chance to take pictures. I got clothing and foot wear from my KL trips, really shop until I drop. While, my darling get me a lot cute dress and clothes from his Japan trip. Nevertheless, Japanese COSMETICS & magazines!!

Tah-dah! Here are few things my dear bought for me :)

Shiseido Perfect Whip, Visee Limited edition Mascara & eyeshadow (in pink packaging), top selling color Visee eye shadow in brown, Revlon Beyond Natural loose powder (very convenient pakaching which is not available in M'sia), Intergate face powder (the first foudation from Intergrate),Cofrret'dor limited edition shimmer eye shadow, Lashuvca eyeshadow, KATE eye&brown power (I like this!), N.Y.Sussie Nail color in light blue, Revlon shimmer Nail color in white (I didn't see this selling in M'sia), Jill Stuart Night Jewel perfume (most expensive among these, and i love the scent and bottle very very much!)...A lot of managizes(five or six), Small cute handbag from Isetan.

There's a lot more...dress and clothing..can't show everything here :) Thanks dear!

life...May10

-“I’ll be famous one day, but for now I’m stuck in the life with a bunch of morons”-

If there’s no camera, I think it is no fun to blog. I don’t want to make my blog look like an article without pictures and look so plain. How about camera phone? Opss too bad, I left my USB cable at home.
If talking about life, there’s plenty of weird thing happen. Ever since I moved to this small island, I saw a lot of freaking stuff and people. The person next door always changed. It is weird, love wash cloth 6 in the morning or after 12midnight, hard to find a word to describe. Make other people like a zombie.

Diary of Wimpy kids: “I’ll be famous one day, but for now I’m stuck in the middle school with a bunch of morons.” Haha.. This is funny… So I should say it “I’ll be famous one day, but for now I’m stuck in the life with a bunch of morons”. I remember that last time my University course mates, they used to use this word “MORON” to scold or greet each other.Yawning, so sleeply.. need some caffeine to turn on my brain from standby mode. Okay, is time back to work. Stay tune for more updates! Next update: shopping freak, stuff I get it from kl, and things my dear get me from jp.

work = sucks?

"Own your employability!"

Frankly speaking I really don't wish to talk about work over here. The more you see, you work and the more you find out more day by day ; and slowly you will start to hesitate.

What I heard from my ex-colleague is that engineer are not stupid and don't ever try to cheat them. Don;t you agree? Sometimes I knew the fact and choose to be silent. Undertable things always happened and don't ever try to think what is fair and what is unfair. In this real world, this cannot be measured.

There's few keywords you can find it at your work place. Interest of conflict, Leadership, Money. Sometimes this can be one of the reason people stay and go. Report to a good manager, then you're lucky. If unlucky one, then you have to wait for re-organization or left or stay continue work and pretend nothing happened. Sometimes sucks thing might happen in your life and make you become a stronger person.

If you think that why sucks things always happened in your life ? Hey! Don't worry. Got my accompanionship, because it happen to me too! Think positively, you're not alone.

I'm back, 2010

It seems like quite a long time I never update my blog. When I check my blog, OMG.. My last update was 10 Sept 2009. Almost half a year I never update my blog and a lot of thing happened in 6 months.
During end of December 09, I was thinking what I have done for the past. Frankly, I can’t remember.. Last year it is a big change for me, moving from one place to another and need to adapt to new environments and work for 3 companies in a year? Is not I like to switching job, it just that I forced to. Well, is a long story anyway?

I was expecting some vacation or travelling for next year. I need to save my annual leaves and money to have vacation and refresh my mind. I feel very regret that I didn't take opportunity to go for vacation in last year Jun before I start new work. So, I’m looking forward coming Matta Fair over here to give best offer. Hehehe.. I really feel like going to Europe with my family and visit my brother there. Hope that by the time, his house is ready.



So, let me think what are the happening stuff happened in last few months? Ohya! During March, we had our gathering with university course mates. Total 6+1 of us (FC, WT, BG, NY, Vic, myself and Ja ) one day full schedule from morning till late night. FC she is leaving here (small island) back to her hometown (big city, with a lot of shopping malls). We sing karaoke, sunset bistro to see sunset, and then steamboat.
So far this is the most happening stuff happened after I came over this small island.

Besides that I have watch few movies with my dear Ja.
January: “Avatar”, “Wall.E”, “Legion ”

March: “Alice in the Wonderland”, “大日子”


All these are popular movies, perhaps I no need to describe much on the stories. The chinese movie "大日子 woohoo" is a local movie and most of the people play in this movie are local DJ and TV host. This is pretty funny comedy reflect to Malaysia local life. You might find some different languages that frequently use in Malaysia.Friends from oversea, might take a look this funny movie :)